Sonia's
Sniffles
By
Gita Elgin, Psy.D., Ph.D.
Tentatively, she stepped into the waiting room. A young woman of medium height,
delicate features, and large, green, anxious eyes, Sonia brushed the hair
from her eyes and took in her surroundings.
Sonia had seen several specialists. They had established that she was
allergic to the pollen of various flowering plants as well as to some grasses.
But the antihistamines they prescribed provided only partial and temporary
relief, and at the cost of side effects that she found unacceptable. Nor
did she relish their alternative proposal: a never-ending series of injections.
The rest of the year it was not that bad, but now, in the spring, it was just
too much: severe sinusitis, post-nasal drip, teary eyes, headaches, and fatigue.
Sometimes she could not even get out of bed. She was depressed and anxious.
But for the discomfort, she would have given up long ago.
We began with a thorough inventory of Sonia’s physical, mental, and spiritual
functioning. On the physical level, she was sensitive to certain
airborne substances; she could not eat certain foods, and she hated loud music
and glaring lights. On the emotional level, she was vulnerable to negative environments,
especially to others’ criticisms. On the spiritual level, she turned out to
be very intuitive. She had had psychic and transcendental experiences.
Thus the theme of oversensitivity manifested on all levels of her being: physical,
mental, and spiritual. When, in the course of the interview, Sonia herself realized
this, a light clicked on. Suddenly she had a key to her problem: to understand
it and, ultimately, to resolve it. We call this the "Holistic Diagnosis,"
as different from the medical diagnosis (allergies) and psychological diagnosis
(anxiety, depression). It provides the key to understand and frame her situation,
and determines the course of treatment.
Sonia had to be reassured that she was not wrong for being sensitive. In some
way it could be quite beneficial: it could help her better understand her own
needs and to tune in to others. The problem was in not being able to control
her sensitivity, not being able to “close the door” to noxious stimuli and open
it to positive ones.
Sonia
understood that she was responsible for her health and her life. We would
give her the tools she needed, and she would use them to get well and achieve
a higher level of fulfillment in all spheres of her life. The healing
journey would be a joint process.
As we progressed
in our exploration, Sonia revealed that she had experienced some family trauma
as a young girl. It soon became clear that these early experiences had
much to do with her lack of boundaries, and the resulting sensitivity, vulnerability,
and anxiety that she experienced in all aspects of her being.
We established
a treatment plan to address the causes, not just the symptoms, using methods
that were natural, non-toxic and non- invasive.
First
and foremost, Sonia learned how to “close the door” to noxious influences in
her life and to open it only to positive influences. Once she understood
the origins of her sensitivity, she could more readily distinguish between things
that were threatening and those that were not.
To
help Sonia develop a healthy lifestyle, we provided consultations tailored to
her specific characteristics and special needs: on stress management, nutrition,
and exercise.
To
help with specific symptoms, we recommended a Chinese herbal formula.
Eventually
we also suggested a constitutional homeopathic remedy that addressed her
unique theme at the energy level.
As
our work progressed, Sonia increasingly began to take control of her life. Her
depression lifted. Her anxiety and vulnerability decreased. And her allergic
reactions diminished. As she gained confidence, she took on a new career
challenge. She now makes use of her sensitivity to help small children
with their problems.
This vignette exemplifies the five primary principles of Holistic Psychology.
1. You are a whole person
— with physical, mental,
and spiritual aspects.
2. You are unique.
Your uniqueness is the key to your health and to your life journey.
The Holistic Diagnosis is derived from it.
3. You are in charge
of your health and your life. You have the power to heal yourself.
4. You can discover
the causes of illness and create causes of
health in their stead.
5. You can use methods
that are natural, non-toxic, and non-invasive,
to regain health and to maintain wellness.